Help for the betrayed: How to help your spouse talk about their affair

How to help your spouse talk about their affair

Reading Time: 7 minutes “How do I get my partner to talk about their affair?” is one of the most common questions I’ve read from betrayed spouses on our Instragram page. My wife has certainly banged her head against the wall asking that very question. I’m going to take this opportunity to share some insight on how to help…

Help for the unfaithful: Talking about the affair

Talking about the affair will transform your recovery

Reading Time: 6 minutes I’m an unfaithful spouse. I empathise that talking about your affair is horrendously difficult. However, I also know that talking about the affair has been transformative to my wife and I’s recovery. My wife’s already written some excellent words about disclosure here (see this link). I believe there’s more on the way. I’m going to…

Seven Stage Recovery – Stage Three, Four and Five

Reading Time: 6 minutes Stages of Recovery Three, Four and Five Continuing on from our previous post today we are covering stages of recovery three, four and five of the seven stages. For stage one and two check out the previous post. When you consider how you can move past an affair it’s important to know what’s coming for…

Seven Stage Recovery – Stage One and Two

Reading Time: 6 minutes   It’s pretty much agreed, across infidelity recovery writers and theologians, that there are seven stages of recovery. I know we can certainly see the process in our own recovery. It’s clear that I should say right now though, these things are not linear and also you can be flying through stage five, hit a…