Unfaithful spouses: Take personal responsibility for your affair

Do something great and take personal responsibility for your affair

Reading Time: 6 minutes This is a call to action for all unfaithful spouses determined to reconcile and rebuild their marriages: take personal responsibility for your affair. You had the affair. You cheated on your spouse. Your affair created the pain they’re experiencing right now and you may well be causing your spouse further pain and trauma. It’s up…

Do unfaithful spouses experience triggers?

do unfaithful spouses experience triggers to?

Reading Time: 7 minutes This post is, in part, an addendum to my wife’s recent post on triggers in recovery. It’s also an exploration of my own feelings about the way in which unfaithful spouses experience triggers. You can read my wife’s post here: https://infidelityrecoveryuk.com/triggers. I’m not going to cover the ground my wife has already covered on triggers…

Seven Stages of Recovery: Stages Six and Seven

Reading Time: 4 minutes Today is talking more about marriage recovery, it’s focused on the relationship itself. Here’s the last in the three part series of the stages of affair recovery. We’ve already discussed stage one and two and stages three, four and five as well. Now on to the final two, stages six and seven. The home stretch!  …

Seven Stage Recovery – Stage Three, Four and Five

Reading Time: 6 minutes Stages of Recovery Three, Four and Five Continuing on from our previous post today we are covering stages of recovery three, four and five of the seven stages. For stage one and two check out the previous post. When you consider how you can move past an affair it’s important to know what’s coming for…

Seven Stage Recovery – Stage One and Two

Reading Time: 6 minutes   It’s pretty much agreed, across infidelity recovery writers and theologians, that there are seven stages of recovery. I know we can certainly see the process in our own recovery. It’s clear that I should say right now though, these things are not linear and also you can be flying through stage five, hit a…