I’m not a big believer in forgiveness being the only way forward, I found it came organically and eventually, but if that’s what you feel you need to understand it further and start moving towards it then this section is for you. Forgiveness is hard when someone severely hurts you, I worked on grace and healing first, forgiveness came later with a lot of soul searching from his side and demonstrable remorse and change. I stopped feeling so angry and started feeling more light. Thats when I knew. It took nearly six months to get there though.
Forgiveness is something that religious folk tend to pray on. We aren’t religious folk but I’m sure there is plenty out there too support that.
Forgiveness Links for You
GoAskSuzie has a very beautifully designed visual section on forgiveness after the affair.
Underlying resentment from the unfaithful needs to be addressed as well, this video is helpful for that.